{"id":109,"date":"2011-07-19T06:36:28","date_gmt":"2011-07-19T11:36:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.aguidetoselfsabotage.com\/?p=109"},"modified":"2012-04-28T13:24:38","modified_gmt":"2012-04-28T18:24:38","slug":"top-5-things-men-and-women-look-at","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.aguidetoselfsabotage.com\/2011\/07\/19\/top-5-things-men-and-women-look-at\/","title":{"rendered":"Top 5 things men and women look at"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>They say in the real world the first thing women notice about a man are his shoes and his watch. I&#8217;m not sure why anyone would still wear a watch and frankly it&#8217;s too hot out to wear pants let alone shoes.<\/p>\n<p>We surveyed a half a person to see what are the top five thing that women and men look at when viewing an online dating profile.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What a man looks at<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">Pictures<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">Age<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">Location<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">Pictures<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">If they are online now<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>No surprises there. Men are shallow and simple.<\/p>\n<p>The number one thing women can do to improve their dating options is remove all photos of their cats.<\/p>\n<p>Now onto the better sex.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What a woman looks at<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Income<\/li>\n<li>Height<\/li>\n<li>Education<\/li>\n<li>Grammar<\/li>\n<li>Pictures<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>When asked why pictures are not the first thing that women look at they responded that most guys look like shit in a photo. They don&#8217;t wear a shirt when most of them should be wearing a shirt in a swimming pool or the photos are of them playing golf.<\/p>\n<p>The number one thing men can change to improve their dating options is to become taller.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>They say in the real world the first thing women notice about a man are his shoes and his watch. I&#8217;m not sure why anyone would still wear a watch and frankly it&#8217;s too hot out to wear pants let alone shoes. 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